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When are you going to stop waiting for Mr. Right and settle for Mr. Right Now?
Anyone who’s ever watched a romantic comedy from the 90s has probably heard some variation of this word play. But tbh, after you get all the eye rolls out of the way and really think about it, there’s something wise here.
It’s not terribly different from the enduring proverb, A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
Take away the birds and the romantic undertones and you’ve got a simple message about letting go of unrealistic ideals and embracing the attainable — a good takeaway if your “perfectionism” and “productivity” seem perpetually locked in a wrestling match.
Stop striving for absolute perfection and be proud of what’s perfect for right now.
Perfectionist tendencies leach productivity because “perfection” is a moving target.
You’re about to turn in work that seemed perfect yesterday, but it suddenly looks to you like garbage. It needs more work! A lot more work.
On the other hand, there are obvious perks to wanting to do your best.
Compromise by adding limiting parameters.
Here are a few attainable “perfection modifications” to try out:
“Perfect for what I need to accomplish here”
Limiting parameter: Objectives
Determine if your work is finished using documented objectives instead of your perception of its quality. Chances are, if it satisfies all your objectives, it’s also high quality.
This approach helps separate improvements that might benefit the project from “improvements” that only take up time and enable a cycle of perfectionism.
⭐ Tip: You can also use a big-picture purpose for this modifier.
If you’re focused on the true point of what you’re doing, you’ll be better prepared to separate valuable tasks from busy-work tasks.
“Perfect for right now”
Limiting parameter: Time
⭐ Tip: If you find it helpful and it’s realistic for the project in question, give yourself permission to revisit it later to make some improvements.
This will make letting go easier, and when you revisit the project, you might have different feelings about the additional work you wanted to do.
“Perfect enough to move on”
Limiting parameter: Opportunity cost
We’re all painfully aware that time is a finite resource. Spending time on one thing means you’re not spending it on something else.
If you’re taking more time than you planned to use on a project, consider where you’re getting that extra time.
What important work or personal life activities get less time?
Weigh what you get from spending extra time on a project against what you get from moving on to other things in your life.
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“The biggest challenge I’m currently facing is overcoming procrastination. Even when a deadline looms, I indulge in every possible distraction from the task at hand.”
Heard, Liz. Procrastination is a powerful beast, immune even to the threat of a looming deadline. All the logical and/or desperate pleas you toss its way just bounce off its thick hide.
Here’s what it doesn’t want you to know: Procrastination isn’t your real target. It’s the reason why you procrastinate.
“Procrastination” describes one thing, one end result, that stems from many different and deeply personal sources.
So. Why are you procrastinating?
Seriously. Think about it. I know it’s hard, but it will help.
When I ask myself this question, I usually hear a whiny little voice: Because I don’t want to. It takes many rounds of repeating, “Okay, but why?” before I arrive at anything clarifying.
Finding the why behind your procrastination is the key to destroying it—by nipping it in the bud, so to speak.
And getting into the habit of examining your procrastination is key to managing it in the long run, because you may identify a different why each time you notice your procrastination.
You may find it helpful to make note of these common sources of procrastination as you start your own questioning:
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