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OG Tuesday #317

OG Tuesday Issue #317

Oct 20, 2026
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✅ Today’s Checklist:

  • The one doc that stops you re-explaining your job to AI
  • How to stay approachable and still get real work done
  • Why fewer priorities beat multitasking

📅 THURS 10/22 @ 9AM PT: 61% of you told us you rework about half of what AI gives you. These 3 AI fixes are the training your company didn’t give you. Free, one hour. Save your seat.

🤔 Riddle me this: I’m a word that means something can’t be found anywhere. Add a single space and suddenly it’s right in front of you. What am I? (Find the answer on the bottom).

QUICK LINKS

🎃 Halloween plans? Consider this your spooky season cheat sheet.

📈 This AI notepad for people with back-to-back meetings now supports 32 languages.

🙋‍♀️ Tired of being the help desk? Tango turns any task you do once into a free how-to guide.

🏆 A thank-you lands harder when it comes with points. Here’s how to set up a points program.

AI CONTEXT

A cartoon illustration titled “AI AT WORK” shows a woman in a blue jacket working on a laptop beside a confused robot, with speech bubbles and question marks above them. On the right, the woman points toward a checklist labeled “WHAT GOOD LOOKS LIKE,” while arrows, documents, and folders connect to a smiling robot holding a paper.

You Shouldn’t Have to Re-Explain Your Job to AI Every Week

 

It’s Monday, and you open a new chat to draft the weekly update for your boss. Before AI can help with anything, you’re typing the same paragraph you typed last Monday: who your boss is, what the project is, and the fact that she skims anything longer than a text.

When we asked you last month, 61% said about half of what AI gives you is usable and you rework the rest. A lot of that rework comes from the same place. AI starts every chat knowing nothing about your job, so it fills the blanks with the most average answer it can find.

The fix is to write the unchanging parts down one time and keep them somewhere you can hand over in a few seconds. If you only build one doc, make it this one.

Write a “What Good Looks Like” doc

  1. Pick the thing you rebuild every week. That could be the status update, the meeting recap, or the client follow-up, whichever one you’re tired of explaining.
  2. Paste in the best one you’ve sent. Use the version you edited and actually sent, because that’s the one with your judgment in it.
  3. Add a few lines on why it works. Who reads it, how long it runs, what always goes first, and any words or phrases you never use.
  4. Save it with a plain name like “What Good Looks Like – Weekly Update” in your drive. Next time, attach it or paste it in before you ask for anything.

Then test it once. Ask AI to write this week’s version using only that doc and your rough notes, see what it gets wrong, and add a line to the doc so it doesn’t happen again. Every fix you make sticks for next week.

That one doc will noticeably change your next draft. The bigger shift happens when the project brief, your rules, and the running history all live together, so next week’s update takes one line instead of a whole paragraph of backstory. That’s what I’m walking through Thursday, on one real project from start to finish, using the tools your company already gave you.

🗓️ The Explain-It-Once Method: 3 Simple AI Fixes to Cut Busywork and Get Paid More. Thursday 10/22, 9am PT, free. Save your seat.

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Joanna (TA Co-Founder)

HOLIDAY GIFTING

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Every Client and Teammate Gifted Before December, No Addresses Needed

 

It’s Q4. You’re closing out goals and building next year’s plan, and somehow the holiday gift list landed on your desk too. Collecting addresses alone could eat a week.

Our Holiday Gifting Concierge turns that list into a plan in about 2 minutes. Tell it who you’re gifting, your budget and your timing, and you’ll get:

  • A gifting direction built around your group, budget and deadline
  • Ideas that actually fit, not a giant catalog to scroll through
  • A free 30-minute consult with a gifting specialist from Stadium, the team behind SnackMagic, if you’d rather hand the whole thing off. They come back with real options and pricing. No sales pitch, no commitment.

The address problem goes away too. Recipients pick their own gift and enter their own shipping info, and SnackMagic ships to 170+ countries, so your global team is covered.

Holiday shipping cutoffs show up faster than you think, so get your list sorted this month.

👉 Find your gifting plan (takes 2 minutes).

BIGGEST CHALLENGE

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How to Keep Your Door Open Without Losing Your Whole Day

 

“Biggest challenge is interruptions related to an open-door policy.” (Fiona G., RN)

Fiona, you’re describing a day that mostly belongs to other people’s questions. You’re halfway through a care plan or a staffing email when someone leans in with “got a sec?”, and by the time you get back to it, the thread’s gone. Your open door tells your team they can come to you and that raising a concern will never be held against them, which matters even more in healthcare, where the question someone sits on can turn into a safety issue. Keeping that promise doesn’t mean being reachable every minute of the day.

Keep the promise, change the hours

Pick two or three windows a day, like the start of shift, midday, and late afternoon, when your door is open and your full attention goes to whoever walks in. Tell your team about it as something you’re doing for them: “I want to be fully present when you need me, so here are the best times to catch me.” That lands very differently than “please stop interrupting me.”

Teach the team to triage

Most interruptions fall into one of three buckets, and your team can learn to sort them before they knock:

  • Urgent and can’t wait? A patient safety issue, a staffing emergency, a deadline about to be missed. Interrupt immediately, always.
  • Time-sensitive but not an emergency? Flag it and give me 15 minutes.
  • A question, an update, or a non-urgent request? Save it for office hours or send a message.

Once people know the buckets, they stop defaulting to “go find her” for everything.

Give your door a signal

If there’s no door to close (and on a unit, there usually isn’t), a visual cue does the same job. A small sign, a colored badge clip, or a focus status in Teams can say non-urgent items wait. Expect to reinforce it for the first week or so. After that, it becomes part of how your team works.

Guard one block a day

Interruptions don’t always slow you down, which is part of why they’re easy to shrug off. In one UC Irvine study, people who were interrupted finished their work faster to make up for it, and paid for it with more stress, frustration, and time pressure. Protecting even 30 to 45 minutes of uninterrupted time, ideally before the day speeds up, gives you one stretch where you can think at your own pace. Put it on your calendar and treat it like your most important appointment of the day.

Your open door is how your team knows they can count on you. A little structure around it means you’re still there for them at 4pm, with enough left in the tank to actually listen.

HOTEL AIR

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I Stopped Buying Candles. Here’s What I Use Instead.

 

Every holiday season I’d stock up on candles, light three before guests arrived, then spend the night keeping an eye on the flames around the kids and the dog. By New Year’s, I had a drawer full of burned-down jars.

This year it’s Aura House. Its cold-air diffusers give my whole place one steady, hotel-lobby scent, with no soot, no wax, and no flame to babysit. A bottle of oil lasts me about a month. Right now I’m on Yellowstone, earthy and outdoorsy, like a cabin weekend without the drive, and the oils meet Clean at Sephora standards.

Now the smell is the first thing guests mention, before the tree or the table, and everyone wants to know which scent I’m using.

👉 Get 10% off with ASSIST10. Fair warning: people may start asking if you’re free to host dinners.

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Kristel (TA Marketing)

STAFF PICKS

Stuff We’re Loving This Week

 

🤫 Noisy house or a snoring partner? Loop Quiet earplugs turn the volume way down.

🌬️ Windows closed and the heat on means this air purifier earns its spot all fall and winter.

🍉 After a sweaty workout, LMNT’s Watermelon Salt electrolytes are the easiest way to put the sodium back.

✨ Kristel’s dull-skin fix lately: a Korean rice PDRN serum with niacinamide for texture and pores.

JUST FOR FUN

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