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Thirsty Thursday #261

#ThirstyThursday Issue #261

Nov 12, 2026

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✅ Today’s Checklist:

  • Lead magnets that actually convert
  • How to be a better listener, even when you disagree
  • Give your LinkedIn profile a makeover
  • Why you need an admin day before the holidays

QUICK LINKS

🔥 Burnout rarely announces itself, and talking it through with a licensed therapist* can help you catch it early.

🔁 Ford rehired 350 engineers after its AI tools fell short.

💳 Last year’s holiday debt averaged $1,223, so set the budget now.

🏠 Remote workers report better well-being, yet managers still rate them lower.

Quick note: our BetterHelp shout-out is sponsored, and we will earn a commission if you sign up. Thx for helping keep TA free!

SALES

How to Build a Lead Magnet People Actually Download

Takeaways:

  • Mine five places for ideas with PARTS: Pain points (complaints you hear on repeat), Already proven (your best-performing content), Resources (templates or tools you already use internally), Trending (the questions everyone in your industry is asking) and Secrets (lessons you learned the hard way). Your most-saved carousel can become a checklist, and your internal pricing calculator can become the freebie.
  • Solve one problem for one person. “7 fixes for posts that get views but no leads” lands better than “The Ultimate Marketing Guide” because your ideal customer can tell in two seconds it’s for her.
  • Run the three-question test before you build: Does it solve one problem completely? Does it speak to one specific customer? Does it lead to one clear next step? If any answer is no, tighten it before you design a single page.

See the PARTS framework on LinkedIn.

PROSPECTING

Know Which Companies Are Shopping Before They Call You

Some of your best prospects are researching what you sell right now, and you won’t hear from them until they’ve already shortlisted someone else.

Apollo flags those companies with intent signals, then hands you the right people to reach from 240M+ contacts across 30M+ companies, filterable by title, industry, company size and location.

  • Spot buyers early with signals that show who’s researching your category
  • Reach the right person with contact data that stays current, so fewer bounces
  • Stay in front of them with email sequences that run on schedule

Already living in Claude or ChatGPT? Connect Apollo and ask for prospects in plain English, right in your chat.

More than 600,000 companies use Apollo, and the free plan means you can build this week’s list without a budget conversation.

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DEEP LISTENING

How to Really Listen to Someone You Disagree With

Takeaways:

  • Hearing someone out doesn’t mean you agree. Deep listening separates understanding from agreement, so you can stay curious about how someone got to their view and keep your own values intact.
  • Catch your own reaction first. When you feel yourself getting defensive, notice it before you start drafting your rebuttal in your head. Let a pause sit, and listen with your “third ear” for what matters to them but isn’t being said.
  • Practice on purpose. Pick one person whose views differ from yours and have one conversation where your only goal is understanding how they got there. Feeling heard tends to make people more open, which makes the next conversation easier for both of you.

Watch the TED Talk on YouTube.

LINKEDIN GLOW-UP

Your LinkedIn Profile Should Work Like a Landing Page

Takeaways:

  • Answer three questions at the top of your profile: who you help, what you do and why someone should care. Whether you want a new job, clients or speaking gigs, a visitor who has to scroll for those answers usually leaves.
  • Rewrite your headline as a pitch. Try “I help [who] [get what result],” then open your About section with your audience’s biggest pain point before you explain how you solve it.
  • Use Featured and Experience as your receipts. Point Featured at your website, newsletter or best resource, and list a result under each role, like a project you led or a number you moved.

See the full profile blueprint on LinkedIn.

HOLIDAY PARTY

The Holiday Party Question Nobody Plans For: How Everyone Gets Home

Every December, the same logistics land on someone’s desk: the team lunch order, the client dinner, and the question nobody says out loud about how everyone gets home after the holiday party.

Uber for Business lets you offer rides as an employee perk, for work and for life outside it. Cover the ride home after the party, an early airport run or the commute on a day the trains are a mess, and set meal allowances for team lunches and client meetings from the same account. You set the rules (when, where and how much), and every ride and order shows up in one dashboard instead of a pile of reimbursement requests.

👉 Add rides to team perks.

P.S. It’s free to set up, which makes it an easy yes from whoever signs off on benefits.

LIFE ADMIN

The Admin Day That Clears Months of Mental Clutter

Takeaways:

  • Write down every small task that’s nagging you. DMV renewals, returns, bills, the dentist, the warranty claim. Getting them onto one list turns a fog of guilt into something you can finish.
  • Give it one full day on the calendar. Batching everything into a single block with a start and an end time makes it a project with a finish line.
  • Do it before the holidays hit. December fills up fast, and clearing the backlog now frees up focus for your work and the people you want to see.

Watch on TikTok.

STAFF PICKS

Stuff We’re Loving This Week

👔 Kristel’s new laundry-day MVP: Martisan’s steam generator iron flattens a week of wrinkles in one pass.

🌸 This gentle on the skin support tape holds through a 12-hour shift with zero adjusting.

🧦 Cold floors, solved: Bombas Gripper Slippers are Thania’s favorite thing to pad around in.

💸 Overpaying for car insurance? See how much you could save in just a few minutes.

JUST FOR FUN

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