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The Weekender #262

Weekender #262

Oct 24, 2026
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🤔 Brainteaser of the day: My birthday is in the first half of the year, not in a 31-day month, not in February, and not in the month that starts with a prank. Which month is it?

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✅ Today’s Checklist:

  • Kristel’s cleaning schedule, plus the spots everyone forgets
  • BEEF is back with two couples and a country club
  • Pet of the week: Meet Lucy

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QUICK LINKS

🪩 Stuck on a costume? Go as Ina Garten with a button-down and wine.

🌬 A physician and breast cancer survivor explains what your breathing says about your stress.

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🏥 For Filipino American History Month: since 1960, more than 150,000 Filipino nurses have moved to the U.S., often filling hospital staffing gaps.

HOME RESET

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How Often You Should Really Clean Everything (Even the Stuff You Forget)

 

I’m a clean-house person. Two young kids, a full-time job, and I still want to walk into a kitchen with clear counters at 9pm. That doesn’t happen with one heroic Saturday scrub. What gets me there is a schedule: small things every day, so the big things never pile up.

The schedule is the whole trick. When the toilet gets a two-minute wipe every morning, it never turns into a 20-minute job. When one load of laundry goes in before coffee, there’s no mountain waiting on Sunday. Here’s exactly what I do and how often, plus the corners of the house most of us forget exist.

Every day

  • One load of laundry, start to finish. Wash in the morning, dry by lunch, folded and put away before dinner. The “finish” part is the rule.
  • Toilets. A quick swish, then wipe the seat and handle.
  • Kitchen close-out. Counters wiped, sink empty, dishwasher running before bed.
  • Vacuum the high-traffic zones. Kitchen, entryway, and wherever the kids eat. A cordless stick vacuum mounted on the wall makes this a five-minute job.
  • Clean while you cook. While the pasta water boils or the chicken roasts, I’m putting ingredients away, loading the dishwasher, and wiping the cutting board. By the time dinner hits the table, most of the kitchen is already done.
  • The 10-minute nightly reset. Everyone, kids included, puts things back where they live: shoes, toys, backpacks, mail.

Every other day

  • Mop kitchen and bathroom floors. With kids, this rhythm keeps floors clean without eating your evenings.
  • Wipe bathroom sinks, faucets, and mirrors.

Once a week

  • Change the sheets. Wash them hot if the care label allows.
  • Clean out the fridge. Toss leftovers and wipe the shelves. I do it the night before grocery day so I can see what I actually need.
  • Tidy the pantry. Pull items forward, toss anything expired, and combine half-open bags.
  • Full bathroom clean. Shower, tub, toilet base, and floors.
  • Dust. Shelves, nightstands, TV stand, and picture frames.
  • Swap towels. Bath towels and kitchen towels get a weekly hard reset.
  • Trash and recycling. Take them out and wipe the can lids.

The stuff you probably aren’t doing (and how often)

This is the list that takes a home from tidy to actually clean. None of it takes long, which is exactly why it gets skipped.

  • Light switches, door handles, and remotes: weekly. They’re some of the most-touched surfaces in the house.
  • Kitchen sponge: replace every week or two, and run it through the dishwasher between swaps.
  • Garbage disposal: weekly. Grind a handful of ice cubes and a few lemon peels.
  • Under and behind the couch and beds: weekly.
  • Makeup brushes: every week or two.
  • Dishwasher filter: monthly. If your dishes come out gritty, this is why.
  • Washing machine: monthly. Run an empty hot cycle with washer cleaner, and leave the door open after every load to keep that musty smell away.
  • Shower curtain liner and bath mats: monthly, straight into the washer.
  • Baseboards and door frames: monthly.
  • Ceiling fan blades and air vents: monthly.
  • Kids’ toys and bath toys: monthly. Bath toys especially, since they hold water.
  • Smoke and carbon monoxide detectors: test monthly.
  • Range hood filter: every 1 to 3 months. Soak it in hot water with dish soap.
  • HVAC filter: check it monthly and swap it every 1 to 3 months, more often if you have pets.
  • Pillows: wash every 3 months.
  • Mattress: vacuum and rotate every 3 months.
  • Dryer vent duct: once a year, beyond the lint trap. Lint buildup in the duct is a real fire risk.

Twice a year: the spring and fall deep clean

I block one weekend in April and one in October. That’s when the big jobs happen: windows inside and out, window tracks, curtains in the wash, appliances pulled out to clean behind, grout scrubbed, and closets purged. The kids’ outgrown clothes go straight into a donate bag, and seasonal wardrobes get swapped. The fall clean is my favorite because the house feels ready for the holidays before the chaos starts.

Make the kids accountable

Kids can do way more than we give them credit for. In our house there’s a chore list on the fridge, and everyone has jobs. Here’s what works by age:

  • Ages 3 to 5: put toys in bins, put dirty clothes in the hamper, match socks, help feed a pet.
  • Ages 6 to 8: make their bed, set and clear the table, wipe the bathroom sink.
  • Ages 9 and up: vacuum, fold and put away their own laundry, take out the trash, load the dishwasher.

The bed will be lumpy and the socks won’t always match. That’s fine, because the goal is the habit.

Full disclosure

Some weeks the fridge clean-out slides to Tuesday and the baseboards wait another month. A schedule gives you a default, so when life gets loud you know exactly where to pick back up. Pick one thing from the “stuff you forget” list and do it tonight.

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Kristel (TA Marketing)

CAREER STACK

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The Skill Combo That Gives You 5 Hours Back

 

Every week, it’s the same routine. Export the data, clean up the mess, rebuild the formulas, and hope nothing broke before the report goes out. You’ve probably tried AI to speed it up, but you’re not sure you can trust what it hands back.

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STAFF PICKS

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📚 Read: Mother Daughter Sister Stranger by Hank Phillippi Ryan

A twisty family thriller made for a cozy October weekend. Clear your Saturday, because you won’t want to put it down.

📺 Watch: BEEF, Season 2 (Netflix)

A brand-new feud, this time between two couples, with blackmail and a country club in the mix. Oscar Isaac, Carey Mulligan, Charles Melton, and Cailee Spaeny make it an instant binge.

🎧 Listen: Happy Hour with Ina Garten

Ina sits down with guests over cocktails for candid conversations that feel like eavesdropping on a really good dinner party. New episodes drop Wednesdays, just in time for your weekend.

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PET OF THE WEEK

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Lemonade’s Pet of The Week: Lucy

 

Lucy rescued us when she was 6+ years old and had been abandoned by her first family. She brought so much love into our lives. She is a terrible flirt and wants only to be petted, loved, and fed pup cups filled with whipped cream. She is a favorite in our neighborhood, and we can’t go anywhere without someone asking to pet her and telling her she’s pretty. Everyone loves Lucy!

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