Weekender #265

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✅ Today’s Checklist:

• Kristel’s countdown plan for hosting Thanksgiving
• The dance show to catch up on before the finale
• Pet of the week: Meet Trace

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HOSTING SEASON

My Countdown Plan for a From-Scratch Thanksgiving

I love hosting. I love the moment someone takes a bite, pauses and goes right back for seconds, and I love a full table where people stay long after the pie is gone. I’m also the person who makes everything from scratch, down to the cranberry sauce.

This year, between two kids, a packed work calendar and a holiday season that started somewhere around Halloween, cooking it all the week of isn’t happening. So I built a plan backward from Thursday, and it’s already saving my sanity. Here’s the whole thing, in case you’re hosting too.

This weekend: lock the menu and the guest list

• Confirm your headcount and ask every guest about allergies or dietary needs now, so there are no surprises at the table.
• Pick the menu and cap it: one turkey, four or five sides, two desserts. Anything extra becomes a guest assignment.
• Decide what’s from scratch and what’s a shortcut. The turkey, stuffing and pies are mine. Dinner rolls and ice cream come from a bakery I trust, and nobody has ever complained.
• Order a fresh turkey if that’s your plan, and jot down each recipe’s make-ahead window.

This week: delegate and stock up

• When guests ask “what can I bring?”, give them an exact answer: a specific side, a bottle of wine, a bag of ice.
• My husband owns the turkey timeline, and the kids are in charge of setting the table and making place cards.
• Buy pantry staples, wine and paper goods now, while the shelves are still full.
• Make and freeze pie dough, compound butter and turkey stock.

Next weekend: set the scene and make ahead

• Pull out every serving dish and label it with a sticky note for what goes in it. This saves me more stress than anything else on this list.
• Keep the decor simple: a runner, a few candles, mini pumpkins and fresh herbs or greenery from the grocery store. Go with low centerpieces so people can see each other.
• Make a playlist and set up a drinks station so guests can help themselves.
• Buying a frozen turkey? Start thawing it in the fridge this weekend. Plan on about one day for every four to five pounds, so a 20-pound bird needs four to five days.
• Make the cranberry sauce, gravy base and any dessert that holds well, then do a light clean so Wednesday is a quick reset.

Tuesday and Wednesday: chop, assemble, set

• Buy fresh produce and dairy, then chop and prep everything for the sides.
• Assemble the casseroles and stuffing so they only need to go in the oven.
• Set the table Wednesday night and clear a spot for coats and bags.

Thanksgiving morning

• Write an oven schedule on the fridge, working backward from dinnertime.
• Put out a simple snack board so nobody hovers in the kitchen hungry.
• Have containers ready for leftovers, because sending people home with a plate is part of the welcome.

By Thursday morning, the only jobs left are cooking and opening the door. That means I get to spend Thanksgiving at the table with the people I invited, and everyone still gets the homemade meal they came for.

Our full Thanksgiving hosting guide has the complete prep timeline, more make-ahead dishes and the shortcuts I lean on every year.

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COMMUNITY

PET OF THE WEEK

Lemonade’s Pet of The Week: Trace

Trace is the most happy boy ever. He ALWAYS has a smile on his face and he especially hams it up for the camera. He loves to meet new people and dogs, and he loves to chase the wild turkeys and squirrels in the backyard.

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