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Originally, I planned to share my boyfriend’s story of losing his brother, Greg, to addiction. But on November 30th, 2024, I joined the 82.7 million Americans grieving a loved one lost to a drug-related death when my brother Jimmy died.
The pain is raw, and we haven’t yet laid him to rest. But my past experiences with loss have taught me that grief never truly leaves—it softens over time, making space for a new normal.
Whether your loss is recent or years ago, the holiday season inevitably brings a pang of sorrow. It doesn’t matter how far along you are in mourning; grief has a way of showing up this time of year.
There’s no shortage of advice on coping with grief during the holidays, but I wanted to share a personal perspective—how I’m honoring and navigating my loss this season:
1. Dia de Los Muertos Tree
Inspired by Mexico’s Dia de Los Muertos, I’ve created a small memorial area with a red tablecloth, a mini tree, photos, flowers, and candies. It’s a space to remember loved ones and include them in the celebrations. I want my brother to “see” the festivities and know that we’re still living life to the fullest—just as he’d want us to.
2. An Empty Seat
At our holiday table, we’re leaving an open seat as a quiet nod to those we miss. It’s a way to acknowledge loss collectively, offering comfort without the need for words. This might feel somber to some, but I find peace in the shared recognition that we’re not alone in our grief.
3. Feel It All
I’m letting myself ride the waves. If I feel like crying, I’ll cry—whether it’s in a quiet moment alone or right in the middle of dinner. If I don’t feel like crying when others are, that’s okay too. Sometimes, I’ve found myself staying strong when everyone else is vulnerable. Other times, I’ll break down when no one else is. Grief doesn’t follow a set script, and that’s okay.
What matters is giving myself permission to feel it all: the tears, the laughter, the numbness, and everything in between. If I avoid my feelings, that’s okay too—I’m learning to witness my emotions without trying to control or fix them.
I don’t have profound advice to offer, just the truth: the goal is simply to get through it. Maybe next year, I’ll have more wisdom to share. This year, it’s hard, it’s fresh, and I’m doing my best to honor my brother and those we’ve lost.
I hope you’ll honor your loved ones in your own way, and most of all, remember—you’ll get through it too.
Thania (TA Content Mgr)
With 2025 just around the corner, staying on top of your goals is more critical than ever. Setting meaningful objectives is the foundation, but regularly tracking and refining them is what transforms ambition into tangible results. Whether you’re an individual contributor or part of a large team, the right tools can make all the difference in keeping your goals on track and your priorities clear.
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📚 Read: The Christmas Fix by Lucy Score
The Christmas Fix follows a grumpy home improvement show host and a spirited small-town mayor as they team up to save their community’s Christmas celebration. Packed with festive cheer and irresistible chemistry, it’s the perfect cozy read for the holiday season.
📺 Watch: Our Little Secret on Netflix
Lindsay Lohan shines in this festive romantic comedy where two exes, discovering their significant others are siblings, are forced to spend Christmas together. Filled with humor, awkward moments, and holiday charm, Our Little Secret is a surprisingly delightful take on navigating love, family, and festive chaos.
🎧 Listen: “Drunk Mexican Dad Music” Playlist
Thania swears by this nostalgic playlist for any Mexican gathering. Inspired by a viral video, it’s packed with classic bangers that bring everyone to the dance floor, this playlist is guaranteed to keep the vibes high and the memories flowing. Bust out this playlist and you’ll forever be invited to the carne asada.
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Howie loves to curl up for naps during the day. His parents accidentally let the neighbors think his name is Winston. Instead of correcting the neighbors, his parents bought Howie a toy named Winston. So at least technically, there is a dog named Winston in the house!
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