If you’ve never considered picking up golf, I want to make the case, because this is one of those things where the women who do it have an advantage over the women who don’t.
A lot of deals get made on the golf course. Charity tournaments, client rounds, ย even casual Fridays at the club; these are spaces where relationships get built, trust gets established, and business gets done.
They’re also still overwhelmingly male. The woman who can say “yeah, I’d love to golf” when a client or colleague asks gets the invite. She’s in the room where things happen.
The woman who says “oh, I don’t really know how” watches the boys on the team advance. I’ve seen it play out. Golf gives you access that is genuinely hard to replicate anywhere else: four unhurried hours outdoors with someone, no agenda, no screens. There’s no better networking scenario.
I picked up golf during COVID. My boyfriend at the time was a big golfer, my best friend and her husband play, and it became our thing during a period when there wasn’t much else to do. Then I moved onto a golf course in Idaho and got to play a lot more. And I’ll be honest, I love a male-dominated industry to infiltrate.
I remember getting out on a course for the first time and thinking:ย No wonder boys have been gatekeeping this. It’s awesome.
Golf is genuinely fun. You’re outside, driving a cart, music going, drink in hand, attempting this weirdly satisfying, kind of impossible thing of making contact with a ball and sending it exactly where you want it to go. Plus, the outfits are cute.
And there is nothing more satisfying than watching a guy’s face when you out-drive him ๐.
Golf 101 (it’s actually not that complicated)
- You want the lowest score.ย Every swing or putt counts as a stroke. Fewer strokes = better.
- There are 18 holes, each with a parย (the target number of strokes per hole). Get under par? That’s a birdie. Go over? That’s a bogey. The names are fun.
- The course has a layout.ย You hit from the tee box, aim down the fairway, and try to land on the green. Sand traps are placed near the green to make your life harder.
- Different clubs for different distances.ย You’ll learn which is which as you go. Putters are for short strokes on the green.
That’s pretty much the jist.
How to get started
You don’t need to spend a lot to try it. Grabย a starter set off Amazonย or search Facebook Marketplace for a used set. Then head to your local course’s driving range โ it’s basically a batting cage for golf, just you practicing hitting balls with no pressure or score.
Watch a fewย YouTube videos. See if anyone in your circle plays and would take you out for nine holes.
You’ll be bad at first. Everyone is. That’s half the fun.

Thania (TA Content Mgr)