Brainteaser of the day: A hen and a half lays an egg and a half in a day and a half. How many eggs does one hen lay in one day?
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WEEKEND FINDS
Treat Yo’Self
🛬 To Holiday Travel Planning
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🏈 To Nachos
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👻 To Ghost Stories
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🛋️ To A Cozy Space
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🎃 To A Halloween Party
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FROM ANNIE CRONER, EA COACH & CEO OF WHOLE ASSISTANT
When to Ask For Help
Do you avoid asking for help out of fear of appearing inadequate or incompetent? How do you know when to tap into your independent resourcefulness, or when to ask for help?
You would be hard pressed to find an assistant or strategic business partner who wouldn’t agree that being resourceful is an essential skill to cultivate.
Equally important is knowing when to ask for help or guidance. Here are a few guidelines to help.
When to Tap Into Your Resourcefulness
- When you’ve already been shown how to handle a task or project. Whenever you’re tasked with something new it can be tempting to rely too heavily on the person who passed the project or task to you. To mitigate this, create a standard operating procedure for yourself, or reference other resources already provided.
- When you know the next step. Oftentimes you know the next step but are so overwhelmed by the entire process that you end up turning to others for solutions. Instead, I would encourage you to take the actions you know to take and check in with your executive or other stakeholders regarding possible solutions for those pieces of the puzzle you’re unsure about.
- When you’re experiencing burnout. Burnout feels a lot like stumbling without being able to catch your footing. While in a state of burnout, things are more likely to fall through the cracks, and mistakes are frequently made. Taking a step back – in order to take care of yourself and regain your balance – will require the help and support of others.
- When you genuinely don’t have any idea of the next step. If you honestly don’t know what to do next, ask for help. Simple enough.
- When asking a simple question will give you back substantial amounts of productive time. There were times in my career when I spent way too much time hunting down an answer that it would have taken my executive 2 seconds to give me. We all walk a fine line between self-sufficiency and wasting valuable time that could be better spent. If asking the question will give you back hours of productive time, just ask it.
Common Pitfalls
There are a couple of common pitfalls that come up a lot as I’m working with my coaching clients. The first is not wanting to ask for help for fear of sounding incompetent. Being stuck in a holding pattern for fear of looking incapable isn’t serving anyone. Here’s the ironic truth, it’s this very fear that’s keeping you from being truly effective.
The other extremely common, yet covert, pitfall is indulging in confusion. Sometimes your brain would rather stay in the flux of confusion than take the risk of trying something new or asking for help. This is rooted in the fear of misstepping and the belief that there’s “one right way” of doing something that you aren’t privy to.
My answer to both of these pitfalls? Literally, any action is better than inaction. At least when you’re in action you can course correct. When you’re at a standstill, no progress is made.
How to Ask For Help
- Open a Google doc or grab a slip of paper. Write down all the thoughts you have about asking for help. Get all of the judgments and fears out of your head. Self-awareness is the first step in overcoming your hangups.
- Orient yourself around a solution. Ultimately, whatever situation you find yourself in really isn’t about you. Stay solution-oriented. Being solution-oriented will serve you in being resourceful -or- asking for help. Don’t just come with questions, present a few different potential options for a solution.
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A QUOTE TO LIVE BY
From Nelson Mandela
“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”
Joanna’s Recs
Show to binge 📺 :
The Traitors
Song to bump 🎵:
Agora Hills by Doja Cat
Podcast 🎙️:
Modern Love
Book 📚:
Someone Else’s Shoes by Jojo Moyes
Wishlist 📝:
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Cameron’s Recs
Show to binge 📺 :
Hunted Mansion
Song to bump 🎵:
To The Bank
Podcast 🎙️:
ShxtsNGigs
Book 📚:
The Peacock and the Sparrow by I.S. Berry
Wishlist 📝:
Mouth Tape
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